Tuesday, January 8, 2008

Friendship

It was Kahlil Gibran's Birth Anniversary a couple of days back.. I always enjoy reading his writings ... Following are his thoughts about friendship... Each and every word is a beautiful and priceless pearl...

And a youth said, 'Speak to us of Friendship.'

Your friend is your needs answered.

He is your field which you sow with love and reap with thanksgiving.

And he is your board and your fireside.

For you come to him with your hunger, and you seek him for peace.

When your friend speaks his mind you fear not the 'nay' in your own mind, nor do you withhold the 'ay.'

And when he is silent your heart ceases not to listen to his heart;

For without words, in friendship, all thoughts, all desires, all expectations are born and shared, with joy that is unacclaimed.

When you part from your friend, you grieve not;

For that which you love most in him may be clearer in his absence, as the mountain to the climber is clearer from the plain.

And let there be no purpose in friendship save the deepening of the spirit.

For love that seeks aught but the disclosure of its own mystery is not love but a net cast forth: and only the unprofitable is caught.

And let your best be for your friend.

If he must know the ebb of your tide, let him know its flood also.

For what is your friend that you should seek him with hours to kill?

Seek him always with hours to live.

For it is his to fill your need, but not your emptiness.

And in the sweetness of friendship let there be laughter, and sharing of pleasures.

For in the dew of little things the heart finds its morning and is refreshed.


[Kahlil Gibran ]

5 comments:

surjit said...

Dipti ji,
Kahlil Gibran is my favorite too.I often draw wisdom and insprations from writings.
Thanks for sharing his beautiful insights.
God bless.

Krishna. N. C. said...

My Dear Dipti,
Awe-inspiring!! i have always been an ardent lover of Kahlil Gibran and i completely agree with Surjit Ji,his writings have always been full of wisdom and he creates magic with his beautiful words;)
A hug to you for sharing this beautiful piece of his work!
Love and prayers for a very sweet sister:))

Sadiq said...

kahlil gibran is a favorite of mine too!

thanks for the reminder.

dipti, could u pls drop me an email ... need ur input about some tech matters if possible.

thanks. sadiq

darvish said...

Really lovely, and He could also be speaking of the Friend :)

Ya Haqq!

Dipti said...

Surjit VeerJi and Krishna .. Thanks so much for your motivting comments ...your feedback is always so encouraging..

Brother Sadiq .. I will write you back in email .. I am not sure how much I will be able to help technically inspite of a technical degree .. My dear husband lovingly calls me 'User Community' :-) .. but I can always ask him for help ..

Brother Irving ..First of all many congratulations on Engagement of your daughter ..I am sure that she would be taking such a lovely gift from you and her mother to spread with her new family and friends.. gift of loving and appreciating one and all .. Please do convey my regards and congratulations to her